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<h2>The Gift of Giving<br></h2><p>As Thanksgiving reminds us, gratitude is more than saying “thank you”—it’s showing appreciation through action. For many dads raising children on the autism spectrum, this season of giving is the perfect time to nurture empathy and community awareness in ways that feel natural and meaningful for our kids. As Autism Dads, we hope to model what it means to give back and to serve the community.</p><p>Acts of kindness—whether it’s helping prepare a meal for a neighbor, donating gently used toys, making thank-you cards for teachers, or volunteering at a local event—help our children connect the idea of gratitude to real-world experiences. When we include them in these activities, even in small ways, we teach that kindness is something we practice, not just something we talk about.</p><p>Volunteering together also strengthens family bonds and provides valuable opportunities to model compassion, patience, and teamwork. These moments help children on the spectrum feel proud of their contributions and more connected to the community around them. By participating in thoughtful activities, families can bond while making a positive impact on those around them.</p><figure id="figure-64rk54lt1emhslvpvk"><img id="64rk54lt1emhslvpvk" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/35mcdPmd8lvc97FJcr3HtLaO9htCGbCoMfpGWrSP1piIiJULOuj9Ig7uYxWg3mnQ.jpeg" alt="father child volunteering" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/35mcdPmd8lvc97FJcr3HtLaO9htCGbCoMfpGWrSP1piIiJULOuj9Ig7uYxWg3mnQ.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>Choosing the Right Activities</h2><p>When selecting activities, it's essential to consider your child's interests and sensory preferences. Some children may enjoy hands-on activities, while others might prefer quieter, more structured tasks. Here are a few ideas to get started:</p><ul><li>Crafting homemade cards for a local nursing home<br>Gather art supplies and let your child design colorful, heartfelt cards for residents. This simple act of kindness encourages creativity and connection.</li><li>Participating in a community clean-up day<br>Cleaning a local park or playground gives children a sense of ownership and pride in caring for shared spaces. You can bring noise-canceling headphones and make it a short, focused outing.</li><li>Donating toys or clothes to a children’s charity<br>Let your child help choose items to donate. Talk about how these gifts will make another child’s holiday brighter—an easy way to connect empathy to action.</li><li>Baking treats for first responders or teachers<br>Cooking together promotes sensory play and teamwork, and delivering the baked goods helps kids practice gratitude and social interaction.</li><li>Helping stock a food pantry<br>Many organizations allow families to assist with sorting or packing items. Labeling and organizing donations can be an enjoyable hands-on task for detail-oriented kids.</li></ul><p>Each of these activities can be tailored to suit your child's unique needs and interests, ensuring a positive and engaging experience.</p><h2>Volunteering in the Special Needs Community</h2><p>Connecting with local special needs communities can enhance the impact of your holiday giving activities. Engage with local organizations or support groups that focus on serving youth and adults with special needs--Easter Seals Greater Houston, The Arc of Texas, Disability Rights Texas, Coalition of Texans with Disabilities (CTD), Hope for Three, Achilles Houston, Be A Ninth Wonder, and of course the Autism Dads Social Club. Participating in events or fundraisers can provide a sense of belonging and purpose for both dads and their neurotypical and neurodiverse children.</p><p>By inviting them to be involved in the community and to serve,&nbsp; you not only support important causes but also help your child develop social skills and confidence in new environments.</p><figure id="figure-vhn5kwco5xmhslvzq4"><img id="vhn5kwco5xmhslvzq4" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/5pzFEq623emlqBHO4cn7wmvMJ3bZVZQAU4Nc7wfwlb14yoyEcyCNlhEegeV1NuL1.jpeg" alt="community event" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/5pzFEq623emlqBHO4cn7wmvMJ3bZVZQAU4Nc7wfwlb14yoyEcyCNlhEegeV1NuL1.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>Reflecting on the Experience</h2><p>After participating in service activities, take time to reflect on the experience with your child. Discuss what they enjoyed, what they learned, and how they felt during each activity. This reflection can reinforce the value of empathy and giving, further strengthening the bond between dads and their autistic children.</p><p>Encouraging open communication and sharing feelings can create a safe space for children to express themselves, fostering emotional growth and understanding.</p><h2>Building a Tradition of Empathy</h2><p>By showing up to serve during the holidays and throughout the year,&nbsp; you can create a tradition of empathy that lasts beyond the holiday season. These experiences can become cherished memories that enrich your family's life and strengthen your connection with one another.</p><p>Whether through crafting, storytelling, or community involvement, the key is to focus on meaningful interactions that celebrate empathy and understanding. Together, dads and their autistic children can make a lasting impact on the world around them.</p>

Fostering Empathy: Teaching our Autistic Kids about Service and Giving

<h2>Meet Listen-2-Me ABA</h2><p>We’re grateful to Listen to Me ABA for being a title sponsor for the 2025 Autism Family Costume Party. Partnerships like this help us connect families with real people and real services, and we’re excited for the chance to bring caregivers and providers into the same room. <em>The Autism Dads Social Club does not endorse any particular company or service provider. Our aim is to introduce families to resources and welcome them to choose the service that best suits them.</em></p><p>As Listen to Me ABA’s story shows, many ABA founders and professionals become acquainted with autism through parenting. Albert, a dad whose journey with his son led him to become a BCBA and CEO of an ABA company, is one of several parents in our local network who turned personal experience into service to the autism community. In the Q&amp;A below, we ask questions that helps readers become acquainted with Listen-2-Me ABA.&nbsp;</p><h3>Why was Listen-2-Me ABA founded?&nbsp;</h3><p>As a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) who has worked with large organizations, I often found that the voices of both practitioners and families were underrepresented. For example, I strongly believe in providing robust parent training—so that families can actively support their children outside of scheduled sessions. However, many organizations discourage this in favor of prioritizing staff-led, 1:1 treatment hours that maximize billable time.</p><p>To me—both as a BCBA and as a parent—the central mission should be empowering parents and equipping them with a deeper understanding of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA). This doesn’t mean reducing the intensity of clinical interventions, but rather expanding their impact: children receive their therapeutic services and parents implement those same principles continuously in everyday life. In my experience, when parents and professionals collaborate, progress is far more sustainable and meaningful.</p><p>My philosophy is simple: parents and BCBAs working together create real change. True progress emerges not from top-down mandates, but from reciprocal, respectful relationships between families and organizations. It is through that partnership that we can make a difference that truly lasts.<br></p><figure id="figure-k1zisqjt5rmgrf52bm"><img id="k1zisqjt5rmgrf52bm" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/38cx0OtXB8AXg485SzisNjYYgbAteDrkzg7SI3mFc9MGS99Vw0al4190B0IHseph.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/38cx0OtXB8AXg485SzisNjYYgbAteDrkzg7SI3mFc9MGS99Vw0al4190B0IHseph.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>How did you choose the name “Listen-2- Me ABA”?&nbsp;</h3><p>Growing up, my son would often say, “Listen to me”—especially when he was engaging in attention‑seeking behaviors that others might label inappropriate. In my training and ABA experience, I was taught to “ignore” behaviors that didn’t meet a strict definition of acceptable.</p><p>Then one day, something shifted. I realized: my son was trying to communicate, and his available tools were those very behaviors we were ignoring. He wasn’t demanding attention for its own sake—he was inviting connection. From that moment, I began to see that children with autism don’t want to be dismissed or overlooked—they want to be heard, understood, and engaged.</p><p>Children with autism are not inherently unsocial; quite the opposite—they crave interaction, especially with the people who matter the most: their parents. That insight inspired the name “Listen‑2‑Me.” Through this work, my mission is to empower parents, providers, and communities to truly listen to our children—to support their passions, nurture their growth, and build meaningful relationships founded in respect and understanding.</p><h3>What makes your ABA approach unique for families in our local community?&nbsp;</h3><p>We place our highest priority on teaching children functional communication, because our greatest hope is for our young learners to express themselves clearly to their parents. As a father, there is nothing more rewarding than hearing my son say, “I love you.” That simple phrase motivates me every day.</p><p>My goal is to train our staff to teach expressive language—whether through words, gestures, or natural communication—so parents can hear their children’s hearts. We believe in using natural language throughout our instruction, embedding communication in everyday moments rather than limiting it to formal sessions.</p><p>Our mission is to empower children to communicate, parents to understand, and our community to support growth, connection, and love.</p><figure id="figure-cryvr7arnmgrffhzq"><img id="cryvr7arnmgrffhzq" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/0xcAyKC75sMSgFJFtFoxBuYul54lO5rau6775WoGiXfLi509THi1GbUGoAVYOU42.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/0xcAyKC75sMSgFJFtFoxBuYul54lO5rau6775WoGiXfLi509THi1GbUGoAVYOU42.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>How do you involve parents and caregivers in therapy—and what does progress look like week to week?</h3><p><br>We believe that parents should be deeply involved in treatment at every possible level. To that end, we offer group parent trainings via telehealth so that caregivers can participate monthly, learn new strategies, and feel supported. We also maintain internal communication platforms where parents can view their child’s progress in real time during therapy sessions.</p><p>One of our core commitments as an organization is to accept fewer cases per BCBA so that staff can devote more hours to parent training, ensuring that parents have access to someone who can answer questions, monitor progress, and provide ongoing guidance.</p><h3>How would you describe your care team, approach, and core values?&nbsp;</h3><p>My mother taught me a core value: always do the right thing, no matter what. As CEO, I carry that with me in every decision. I am constantly thinking about my kiddos and our staff—making sure each learner receives the best treatment possible. This means staying current with evidence‑based practices and being willing to innovate when it benefits our learners.</p><p>For instance, we recently established a new department focused on social skills, using virtual reality (VR) as a tool to give learners a safe, engaging environment to practice real‑world interaction. Research has shown that VR interventions can significantly improve social skills in children and adolescents with autism. In systematic reviews, VR has been shown to support learners in both developing complex social interactions and reinforcing fundamental social behaviors.</p><p>Another of my fundamental values is transparency. When something isn’t working, we don’t shy away—we have tough, honest conversations with parents. We discuss what’s missing, what adjustments are needed, and how we can partner more effectively to push for the progress we know is possible.</p><h3>What goals do you commonly target?&nbsp;</h3><p><strong>We seek to engage parents. </strong>&nbsp;We are committed to conducting monthly virtual meetings so that parents have a dedicated space to ask questions, receive support, and access information about ABA and community resources. Our aim is to connect with parents for at least one hour per month. These gatherings do more than provide information—they foster a community: parents get to meet and support one another, and we have an opportunity to offer honest and transparent updates about progress, challenges, and next steps. Our ultimate aspiration is to stay connected to families, cultivating positive and collaborative relationships within the community we serve.</p><p>One of the first five families to join us had a young boy who was only using “more” and “I want” statements. When the family saw our mission on the website—especially our commitment to teaching natural expressive language—they asked how we put that into practice. I explained the difference between simple requesting (“I want…” / “more”) and teaching tacts—labels or comments about what a child observes in their environment.&nbsp;</p><p>The family was excited and chose Listen‑2‑Me as their ABA provider. After 18 months with us, we are preparing to graduate him from ABA services: his language is now natural, and he plays and interacts comfortably with general education students at school.</p><p>Because this family was one of the first to believe in our mission, we had the privilege of witnessing his full growth. The mother is overjoyed that her son is doing the same things other children are doing in his general education classroom—playing, talking, participating. It’s moments like this that reaffirm why we do this work: to help children not only learn, but truly belong.</p>

Learning to Listen - The Story of Listen-2-Me ABA

Parent-Child Interaction in Autism Therapy

<h2>Understanding Autism</h2><p>As a father, learning that your child has autism can be a journey filled with emotions, questions, and the overwhelming need to understand. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is often surrounded by myths and misconceptions, which can be confusing and misleading. This guide aims to debunk some of these myths, providing clarity and support for dads navigating this journey.</p><figure id="figure-qvoceye5inmfijl2ry"><img id="qvoceye5inmfijl2ry" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/d9TsoWRn2qOt1U0USIwAruIbNrLWY80q4JGptZzzHALAPsiWYz4PV9NNL2muKLJh.jpeg" alt="father child autism" title="father child autism" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/d9TsoWRn2qOt1U0USIwAruIbNrLWY80q4JGptZzzHALAPsiWYz4PV9NNL2muKLJh.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>Myth 1: Autism Is Caused by Bad Parenting</h3><p>One of the most persistent myths is that autism is the result of bad parenting. This myth can place undue guilt on parents, particularly fathers who often feel a strong responsibility for their child's development. <strong>Autism is a developmental disorder with neurological and genetic components</strong>. It is not caused by parenting style. Understanding this can relieve some of the pressure and enable you to focus on supporting your child effectively.</p><h3>Myth 2: All Autistic People Are Alike</h3><p>The phrase "If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism" underscores the diversity within the autism spectrum. Every individual has unique strengths and challenges. As a dad, recognizing and celebrating your child’s individuality is vital. This personalized understanding helps in tailoring support that addresses specific needs, fostering growth and happiness.</p><figure id="figure-rkbdz740kimfijlbv5"><img id="rkbdz740kimfijlbv5" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/29BCEuM0lCkoCpH6GiOj3SSbTiPk4QVQYO2GLNiBFyzh7gHBcfJkPoHdebXOK7dN.jpeg" alt="autism spectrum" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/29BCEuM0lCkoCpH6GiOj3SSbTiPk4QVQYO2GLNiBFyzh7gHBcfJkPoHdebXOK7dN.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h3>Myth 3: Autistic Individuals Lack Empathy</h3><p>A common stereotype is that people with autism cannot feel empathy. In reality, many autistic individuals experience emotions deeply and are capable of empathy. They may express it differently or have difficulty interpreting social cues, but this doesn’t mean they lack understanding or compassion. Encouraging open communication and emotional expression can help bridge this gap.</p><h3>Myth 4: Autism Can Be Cured</h3><p>There is no cure for autism, but that doesn’t mean individuals cannot lead fulfilling lives. With the right support and interventions, people with autism can thrive in their personal and professional lives. <strong>Focusing on strengths rather than seeking a "cure"</strong> allows you to help your child develop skills and pursue interests that enrich their life.</p><figure id="figure-vq672ojn4amfijlno3"><img id="vq672ojn4amfijlno3" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/38LjWw4ZXz4sUnllmALJYgWvAM3vJC9QAyrWanb7Rok9Px7pAAlizTlA3RGzzJok.jpeg" alt="happy child playing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/38LjWw4ZXz4sUnllmALJYgWvAM3vJC9QAyrWanb7Rok9Px7pAAlizTlA3RGzzJok.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>Supporting Your Child</h2><p>As a dad, your role in supporting your autistic child is crucial. Here are some actionable steps you can take:</p><ul><li>Educate yourself about autism through reliable sources.</li><li>Engage in therapy sessions and interventions actively.</li><li>Create a supportive and structured environment at home.</li><li>Celebrate milestones, no matter how small they may seem.</li></ul><h3>The Importance of Community</h3><p>Connecting with other parents of autistic children can provide support and shared experiences that are invaluable on this journey. Whether through local support groups or online communities, finding a network of understanding individuals can offer advice, empathy, and encouragement. Below is an image of autism dads meeting at a local sports Bar in Katy, Texas.</p><figure id="figure-ycfhss92bhmfijlytp"><img id="ycfhss92bhmfijlytp" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/28zCUIlpo7eLboMwZcU9y4ObycuPNiCrI6HUiJML4Vls1AxQHf9ZUJTL9RMMe0as.png" alt="support group meeting" title="support group meeting" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/28zCUIlpo7eLboMwZcU9y4ObycuPNiCrI6HUiJML4Vls1AxQHf9ZUJTL9RMMe0as.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2>Embracing the Journey: A Dad's Closing Charge</h2><p>Debunking myths is only the beginning. The real work—and joy—is building a life with your child where understanding replaces fear and curiosity replaces assumptions. Autism is not a verdict; it’s a different way of processing the world. When you lead with patience, presume competence, and interpret behavior as communication, you give your child room to grow on their timeline, not anyone else’s.</p><p>Your presence matters more than perfection. Show up to the appointment, the IEP meeting, the meltdown, and the celebration. Learn a few strategies (visual schedules, AAC basics, sensory supports), but also learn your child—their interests, cues, and strengths. Become their everyday advocate: ask good questions, push for services when needed, and invite professionals to partner with your family rather than speak over it. Listen to autistic voices, too; they’re your best guides for what dignity and inclusion look like in practice.</p><p>You’re not in this alone. Build a circle: your partner, extended family, teachers, therapists, and other dads who “get it.” Community turns hard days into doable days, and it keeps you resilient for the long haul. Take respite without guilt; sustainable fatherhood is a marathon, not a sprint.</p><p>Fatherhood on the autism journey is about building a world where your child can flourish. Bring your steady presence, your willingness to learn, and your love. That combination changes outcomes—and it changes culture.</p>

Debunking Autism Myths: A Guide for Dads

<h3><strong>George’s Experience with the Autism Dads Social Club</strong></h3><p>Parenting a child on the autism spectrum can be a journey filled with joy and challenges. While every family’s story is unique, the power of connection with other dads who “get it” cannot be overstated.</p><p>George, a valued member, recently shared what being part of the Autism Dads Social Club has meant to him since he started attending our mixers and events. His reflections capture the heart of what we envisioned when starting our club and why our community exists. We invite every dad in similar shoes to join us on the autism journey. We are family.</p><figure id="figure-voxa6x66kkme96tbtp"><img id="voxa6x66kkme96tbtp" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1e5JwWvxHux64vYd27qQsvyswAF7DtpUpmfl9cFv9HCpbuifO8r1IZzObyseCLqY.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-lg md:rounded-xl lg:rounded-2xl" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;" data-corners="medium" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1e5JwWvxHux64vYd27qQsvyswAF7DtpUpmfl9cFv9HCpbuifO8r1IZzObyseCLqY.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;"></figure><p>&nbsp;<br><strong>What has being a member of the Autism Dads Social Club meant to you?</strong><br></p><p>"Being part of the club has really expanded my understanding of being a parent of an autistic child. Having a space to engage with other dads is a great opportunity to see the commonalities we all share. I appreciate the opportunity to fellowship and talk about the challenges and rewards that come with parenting. The club allows me insight into my family's needs by hearing the stories of other dads.”</p><figure id="figure-jfh038z6yqme971515"><img id="jfh038z6yqme971515" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/30P1wIrIIrqW2twJcfH8OPjwgz7C942zdBu7ILEQSLX3kOKGdY7z0kdQPANxFJ7j.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/30P1wIrIIrqW2twJcfH8OPjwgz7C942zdBu7ILEQSLX3kOKGdY7z0kdQPANxFJ7j.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><br><strong>What have you enjoyed about the social events or family outings?</strong></p><p>“The events give me a few hours to step away from the demands of supporting my kids. Being able to switch into relaxed mode with other dads for a short time recharges my ability to be the best parent I can be. Returning from one of the outings I feel eager to play with my kids and give them happy memories like the ones I have of my dad.”</p><figure id="figure-wsanuuiuhmme97dsde" class=""><img id="wsanuuiuhmme97dsde" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/23G7zrBcUmOXMd20kaqGgoVsW31ttgBcBz4jsofxXOEIofJIgFjdNzyAb5UhmJKi.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/23G7zrBcUmOXMd20kaqGgoVsW31ttgBcBz4jsofxXOEIofJIgFjdNzyAb5UhmJKi.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><br><strong>What would you say to encourage other dads to take advantage of the opportunity to connect with our group?</strong></p><p><br>“I remember the apprehension I had about attending my first meeting. There is a masculine aversion to seeking help, and at first glance, the club looked to be a support group—a place for uncomfortable emotions and exposure. After my first event, I realized that what the club does is provide a place for dads just to escape the pressure that comes with autistic parenting. It allows us time to reflect on what we can do to be better dads. For me, it loosens the tight grip I find myself holding on to as a parent. In turn, I can better understand what my kids and family need from me as a dad.”</p><h3>&nbsp;<br><strong>Why George’s Story Matters</strong></h3><p><br>George’s words remind us that the simple act of connecting can be meaningful and transformative. The Autism Dads Social Club isn’t just about events—it’s about creating a safe, pressure-free space where dads can share, laugh, and recharge. It’s about realizing you’re not alone. You have a community walking beside you.</p><p>If you’ve been hesitant to attend our mixers or events, take George’s advice: <strong>Just show up</strong>. We invite you to join us at any of our dads' mixers, family outings, or community events. Learn more about our mission, events, and how to get involved by visiting our website: autismdadssocialclub.org.</p>

Finding Strength in Fellowship

<p>The back-to-school season can bring a mix of excitement and anxiety—especially for families of autistic children. One of the most powerful tools we have as parents is clear, compassionate communication with our child’s teacher.</p><p>Rather than waiting for challenges to arise, it is important to consider taking time early in the school year to introduce your child and share helpful information. This not only builds trust with your child’s teacher but also sets your child up for success from day one. Effective communication with teachers is crucial for all of our children's academic and personal development. It is especially important for our autistic learners.</p><p>One of the most critical aspects of communication is to ensure it is ongoing. Rather than waiting for parent-teacher meetings, establish a regular communication channel with your child's teacher. This can be through emails, phone calls, or scheduled meetings. Regular communication helps in addressing concerns promptly and allows for continuous support for our child's growth.</p><figure id="figure-qucgx0fun8mcwltjjt"><img id="qucgx0fun8mcwltjjt" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/2dDOSL0YePgAh1jIRQWUIUGw4auuh9OHIAmQogrhTEqjmCge2axxDXy52AS1aqm0.jpeg" alt="parent teacher meeting" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/2dDOSL0YePgAh1jIRQWUIUGw4auuh9OHIAmQogrhTEqjmCge2axxDXy52AS1aqm0.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>Discussing Your Child's Strengths</h2><h3>Identify and Acknowledge Strengths</h3><p>Recognizing your child's strengths is vital in boosting their self-esteem and motivation. When communicating with teachers, it's important to share these strengths, as they may not always be evident in a classroom setting. Whether your child excels in creative arts, problem-solving, or leadership, sharing this information helps teachers tailor their approach to better engage your child.</p><p>Encourage teachers to provide opportunities for your child to utilize these strengths in class activities. This not only enhances their learning experience but also allows them to showcase their talents and contribute positively to the classroom environment.</p><figure id="figure-9zvmm2eltrmcwltsiu"><img id="9zvmm2eltrmcwltsiu" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/38KW5Jgtun9RiCDQmEhwHhiJ0N9cHwUnOKsAG9AtFOKo46YAcTwYUfAoIhDNHSWv.jpeg" alt="child drawing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/38KW5Jgtun9RiCDQmEhwHhiJ0N9cHwUnOKsAG9AtFOKo46YAcTwYUfAoIhDNHSWv.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h3>Provide Concrete Examples</h3><p>When discussing strengths, provide concrete examples that illustrate your child's abilities. This could include sharing projects, artworks, or any notable achievements they have accomplished. Concrete examples give teachers a clearer understanding of your child's capabilities and how they can be integrated into the curriculum.</p><h2>Understanding and Addressing Triggers</h2><h3>Identify Potential Triggers</h3><p>Just as it's important to discuss strengths, identifying potential triggers is equally crucial. Triggers can be anything that causes stress or discomfort for your child, affecting their ability to learn effectively. These could range from specific subjects that they find challenging to environmental factors like noise or social dynamics.</p><figure id="figure-dnles0xjgbmcwltwfd"><img id="dnles0xjgbmcwltwfd" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/1LNwy3uzTNGmTpHpc48aV1e0v1xJ9YysdXfrKTR7kDTFJrye4fFMfqvbF7UXZ8kU.jpeg" alt="child frustrated" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/1LNwy3uzTNGmTpHpc48aV1e0v1xJ9YysdXfrKTR7kDTFJrye4fFMfqvbF7UXZ8kU.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><p>Having an open conversation about these triggers with teachers allows them to make necessary adjustments in the classroom. This proactive approach can prevent potential issues from escalating and ensure a supportive learning environment for your child.</p><h3>Collaborate on Solutions</h3><p>Once triggers have been identified, collaborate with teachers to develop strategies that address them. This might involve creating a quiet corner in the classroom, offering additional support in challenging subjects, or implementing personalized learning plans. By working together, you can create an environment where your child feels safe and supported.</p><h2>Building a Partnership with Teachers</h2><p>Effective communication is a two-way street. While sharing your insights about your child is important, it's equally essential to listen to the teacher's observations and feedback. Teachers spend a significant amount of time with your child and can provide valuable insights into their behavior and progress.</p><figure id="figure-v3qj2c7r9mcwlty1y"><img id="v3qj2c7r9mcwlty1y" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/23JxHONwKgW6L5LBYavu1cJWlxxUjbJNnFuf6ZWXj8efVBm5VHfTiV7rFXABt5E8.jpeg" alt="teacher parent discussion" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/23JxHONwKgW6L5LBYavu1cJWlxxUjbJNnFuf6ZWXj8efVBm5VHfTiV7rFXABt5E8.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><p>Building a strong partnership with teachers fosters a positive educational experience for your child. It ensures that both parties are working towards the common goal of supporting the child's development, making school a place where they can thrive. Remember, we are your child’s most important advocate. Our knowledge is a gift to the teacher. By approaching the conversation with kindness and clarity, we can help our child thrive and help their teachers succeed too.</p><h3><strong>Sample Letter</strong></h3><p>Dear [Teacher’s Name],</p><p>I wanted to take a moment to introduce you to my child, [Child’s Name], who will be in your class this year. [He/She/They] are wonderfully curious and have a big heart, and we’re excited about the year ahead.</p><p>Here are a few things that may help you support [Child’s Name]:</p><p><strong>Strengths</strong>:</p><p>[E.g., Loves reading nonfiction books about space]<br>[E.g., Works well with visual instructions]<br>Communication Style:</p><p>[E.g., Uses short verbal phrases and gestures]<br>[E.g., May need extra time to respond to questions]<br></p><p><strong>Triggers / Challenges</strong>:</p><p>[E.g., Loud sudden noises like bells or alarms]<br>[E.g., Unexpected schedule changes]<br></p><p><strong>What Helps:</strong></p><p>[E.g., Having advance notice of changes]<br>[E.g., Access to a quiet space when overwhelmed]<br></p><p><strong>Support Plan</strong>:</p><p>[If there is an IEP in place, remind the teacher of any services to be aware of?]<br></p><p>Thank you for taking the time to learn more about [Child’s Name]. We appreciate all you do and look forward to working together this year. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me at [Phone or Email].</p><p>Sincerely,</p><p><br>[Your Name]</p>

Effective Communication with Teachers: Tips for Parents of Autistic Kids

<p>"Educate. Inspire. Motivate."&nbsp; That’s the heart behind Café Azul Tx Autism, a vibrant community organization founded by Angel and Giset King to support and empower families navigating the autism journey—especially those in Spanish-speaking and bilingual communities. Born from their own parenting experience, Café Azul offers more than resources—it offers connection, compassion, and a sense of belonging. In this special interview, the Kings share how their personal story sparked a powerful movement of hope and healing.</p><p><strong>1. What inspired you to start Café Azul? How has your own autism parenting journey shaped the vision of your organization?</strong></p><p>Cafe Azul Tx Autism was created in response to a pressing need within the Spanish-speaking community—a need for support and education provided in their own language. What began as a small support group quickly grew into a nonprofit organization dedicated to serving and uplifting families. While we initially focused on providing resources in Spanish, we soon received requests from other communities. Recognizing the broader need, we became a bilingual organization.</p><p>Both Angel and I are educators. We believe that knowledge is power. We seek to empower special needs caregivers in their parenting journey. When our daughter, Kayra, was diagnosed, it was an incredibly challenging and lonely time. Our family lived miles away, and none of our friends knew anything about autism. We spent our weekends attending parent training sessions, but even with education, we didn’t have a supportive community around us.</p><p>So when we created Cafe Azul Tx Autism, we wanted to do more than just share information. We wanted to foster a community that educates, inspires, and motivates caregivers, ensuring they know they’re not alone.</p><p>Our motto is educate, inspire, motivate—and that’s exactly what we strive to do every day.</p><figure id="figure-wt5ophcdgtmbnyasc3"><img id="wt5ophcdgtmbnyasc3" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/31BkUuJYcmiDf1SkM6LnT3iPM30AipHzMVqoA7vgDOHqeOG4LYcMMhBnVXQxbS7f.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/31BkUuJYcmiDf1SkM6LnT3iPM30AipHzMVqoA7vgDOHqeOG4LYcMMhBnVXQxbS7f.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><strong>2. What do you hope Café Azul offers to families and individuals in the autism community?</strong></p><p>We’re more than just an organization; we’re a community that believes in the power of education, support, and connection. At Cafe Azul Tx Autism, we offer sensory-friendly events that create a space where everyone feels included. We provide parent training and share valuable community information, but what truly sets us apart is the one-on-one support we give to families navigating unique challenges—whether it’s potty training, puberty, or an upcoming ARD meeting.</p><p>Our parent training goes deeper than just teaching how to care for a loved one with autism. They’re about nurturing the whole family—helping caregivers find strength, learn about self-care, and navigate the challenges that come with raising a child with special needs. We understand how much this journey can impact not just your daily life, but your relationships, your marriage, and your sense of hope.</p><p>Because at the heart of Cafe Azul Tx Autism is the belief that no family should ever feel alone. We’re here to walk beside you—educating, inspiring, and motivating—every step of the way.</p><figure id="figure-niqeybomhvmbnybxd0"><img id="niqeybomhvmbnybxd0" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/24nCGpVcdoQOEDpKjRtLX0LSBxbxi8PLg6o56MSH4M42fMAulJx9RviybuoJC4QR.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/24nCGpVcdoQOEDpKjRtLX0LSBxbxi8PLg6o56MSH4M42fMAulJx9RviybuoJC4QR.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><strong>3. What has been one of your most memorable or meaningful moments since opening?</strong></p><p>In our six years of serving this incredible community, it’s so hard to choose just one memory. But I’ll never forget our first virtual conference during the pandemic. We came together as we were navigating so much uncertainty and isolation. The messages from parents afterwards—telling us how they felt seen, supported, and empowered—moved me to tears. It reminded me of why we do this.</p><p>Another moment that’s especially close to my heart was one of our Moms’ Night Out events. Watching these beautiful women talking, laughing, and connecting—taking time for themselves, something they so rarely get to do—was such a gift. Seeing them fill their cups, even for just a little while, and knowing we created that space for them… it was truly magical. Moments like these are what keep me going every single day.</p><figure id="figure-4gjl4l79anmbnydcjr"><img id="4gjl4l79anmbnydcjr" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14ZbngP17OEucSqjlstsrnuQ6UkiCfEqcS6To7GTHjigIVhXOqJAJQpxqwp6aTWa.jpg" alt="Senior, people and group relax on holiday at cafe on vacation in retirement. Elderly, friends and talk at coffee shop with latte, espresso and drink cappuccino and chat in city morning with tea" title="Senior, people and group relax on holiday at cafe on vacation in retirement. Elderly, friends and talk at coffee shop with latte, espresso and drink cappuccino and chat in city morning with tea" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 35%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="50%" data-positionY="35%" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><p><strong>4. What message would you like to share with other families navigating the autism journey?</strong></p><p>We want other families to know they are not alone on this journey. We want to empower them to advocate for their loved ones and help them see the beauty in the diversity around us. Our special needs children are different, but they are not less. At Cafe Azul Tx Autism, we educate and inspire parents, but we also teach them to celebrate the small joys along the way—no matter how small they might seem.</p><p>We want to be there for them, to offer comfort and hope. Cafe Azul means “blue coffee,” and just like a comforting cup of coffee brings warmth, energy, and focus, we hope to bring that same comfort and support to parents’ souls. We’re here to be that steady presence in their special needs journey, one comforting cup at a time.</p><p><br></p>

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