Autism Dads Social Club — Houston Brotherhood for Dads of Autistic Kids

Executive Board

The team that keeps ADSC running.

Emmanuel Arowolo, Esq.

CoFounder, Inaugural Secretary & Director of Partnerships

Senior Business Immigration Attorney at Jackson Walker LLP

Bio

Helps transform good intentions into sustainable impact by ensuring ADSC operates with integrity, transparency, and compliance. Keeps us organized so we can stay focused on serving dads and families.

Dad to Preye

Jonathan Chism, PhD

CoFounder & Inaugural President

Associate Professor of History at University of Houston-Downtown · 15+ years grassroots organizing

Bio

Frequently mistaken for the event coordinator, fundraiser, speaker recruiter, newsletter editor, and guy carrying the folding tables.

Dad to Jonathan Jr.

Jesse Esparza, PhD

CoFounder, Inaugural Treasurer & Director of Family Engagement

Associate Professor of History at Texas Southern University · Graduate Program Director

Bio

Keeps the books balanced and the mission moving forward. Known for showing up with his entire family in tow — he believes supporting autism dads is a family affair, and his family leads by example.

Dad to Mateo

DeAndrae Hinton

Director of Education & Autism Awareness

Houston ISD Special Ed. Teacher · Adjunct Professor at University of St. Thomas · Author, My Favorite Mistakes

Bio

Turns years of special education experience into practical guidance for dads and families navigating the autism journey.

Dad to Dillon

John Notice, CMHC

Director of Emotional Well-Being

Mental Health Counselor · PhD Candidate

Bio

Encourages dads to prioritize self-care, mental wellness, and resilience — so they can show up as their best selves for their families.

Dad to Tyler & Kyle

Advisory Board

The voices that sharpen our work.

Community members and partners who offer wisdom and feedback on ADSC programming.

Melody DiPasca

Autism Advocate & Community Volunteer

Bio

A full-time working mom of two amazing boys (her youngest on the spectrum), a devoted wife, and an active volunteer in the autism community. Melody's personal and professional experiences have fueled a deep passion for supporting autism families, advocating for inclusion, and helping others navigate their unique journeys. She is committed to building connections, sharing resources, and making a positive impact in the lives of families affected by autism.

Darla Farmer

CEO, Hope for Three

Bio

As the visionary founder of the local nonprofit Hope For Three, now entering its 16th year, Mrs. Farmer has led the organization to become a trusted community cornerstone, expanding services to bridge gaps in access to essential therapies and supports for families living with autism.

Amanda Jaloway

Owner, We Rock the Spectrum Sugar Land

Bio

As owner of We Rock the Spectrum Sugar Land, Amanda was inspired by both her children — one autistic, one not — to curate a space where all kids are free to play and grow together. This fuels her passion to fight every day for a world where everyone not only fits in, but feels truly valued and empowered, regardless of ability.

Paul LeBlanc

Of Counsel, Womble Bond Dickinson

Bio

An attorney specializing in finance and commercial real estate matters throughout the United States. Paul is actively involved in volunteer work in the Houston community, including service on the Literacy Now Board of Directors since 2013, and as Board Chair from 2017 to 2023.

Edmond Lee

Property Manager / Realtor · HOA Manager, Tang City Plaza

Bio

Ed is the father of a teenage daughter who was diagnosed with autism at the age of two. He has been a dedicated advocate for her throughout her life and remains committed to supporting her as she navigates adolescence. He hopes to connect with other fathers of teenagers on the autism spectrum to discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of this stage of life — including college, employment, driving, and the transition to adulthood.

Hope Collins Montgomery

Communications Strategist & Autism Advocate

Bio

As a successful communications strategist with a background in journalism, public relations, and marketing, Hope has helped shape powerful narratives that drive the success of organizations and their leadership. That expertise, which serves her in her current role as chief of staff, also fuels her personal passion for advocating for those with special needs while raising identical triplet daughters on the autism spectrum. She serves as the co-founder of Autism Caregivers Around the Bend and is the “Hope” of Hope for Three, a nonprofit supporting families of those living with autism.

Wes Morgan

Healthcare Commercial Executive

Bio

Wes Morgan is a healthcare commercial executive with 20 years of experience leading growth, business development, patient access and go-to-market strategy for high-growth, multi-site organizations. He has built and led high-performing teams, scaled operations nationally and helped organizations navigate periods of rapid growth, operational transformation and expansion.

Derrick Thomas

Certified Life Coach & CEO

Bio

Derrick Thomas II is a certified life coach and CEO at Thomas-ConnectX Private Asset Management (P.A.M) Firm Administration.

Our Story How it began, what we believe, and why we're here.

The story of the Autism Dads Social Club began when Emmanuel and I, Jonathan, met while dropping our kids off at ABA therapy. After seeing each other several times, we realized we lived in the same neighborhood. What started as brief pickup line chats soon turned into real conversations about our children, our families, and the everyday realities of raising autistic kids. We talked about getting our kids together for a neighborhood bike ride, but more than anything, we just kept finding reasons to keep talking.

Around the same time, Jesse and I met through our work as historians. As we discussed civil rights history, we discovered an even deeper connection: we were both fathers raising autistic children of similar ages. A professional connection quickly grew into a genuine friendship rooted in shared experiences and mutual support.

Eventually, I introduced Emmanuel and Jesse, and the three of us got together on Zoom. As we shared our stories, exchanged advice, and reflected on our experiences, one question kept coming up:

How can we better support one another — and other fathers like us?

Looking around, we noticed plenty of spaces designed for mothers, but fathers were often navigating the autism journey on their own. Many of us felt an unspoken expectation to stay strong, keep moving forward, and carry the weight quietly — to be the rock, and to always have the answers.

But we knew fathers needed support, friendship, and community, too. So in 2022, we founded the Autism Dads Social Club.

We did not want a traditional support group where dads just sit in a circle. We wanted to build a brotherhood — a community where fathers could find encouragement, understanding, and moments of real joy.

ADSC is fathers gathering for barbecue, bowling, fishing, golf, and conversation. It is autistic children playing freely while parents relax among people who truly understand. It is a text message from another dad who has been there. It is sharing resources, celebrating victories, and showing up when someone needs a hand.

Most importantly, ADSC is the community we wish had existed when our own children first received their diagnoses. We cannot eliminate every challenge, but we can make sure no father has to face them alone.

Today, ADSC is a growing community of fathers and families across the Houston area and beyond. We are united by a simple belief:

Our autistic children are gifts to the world. In a society that too often focuses on limitations, we choose to celebrate possibility. We believe every autistic child possesses unique strengths, inherent dignity, and limitless potential. We want our children to recognize their own beauty, brilliance, and worth. We want fathers to know they are never alone on this journey. Most of all, we want every family to experience the strength, hope, and connection that comes from genuine community.

Whether you are just beginning this journey or have been walking it for years, you already have a place in our brotherhood.

From the brothers

What it actually feels like.

ADSC has been a blessing for me and my family. I cherish the connections I've made and the outlet that the organization provides to dads dealing with a shared set of challenges. The guys are all approachable and are here to help each other problem solve and proactively help our children succeed. I look forward to seeing the organization grow in the years to come and continuing to spread the word.

Paul LeBlanc

If you're an autism dad looking for fun activities for your family and yourself, ADSC is the answer. Autism Dads Social Club gave my family — through different activities — an opportunity to meet other dads and families while we travel this unique autism journey.

Angel King

Pearland · Joined 2023

Since joining ADSC, we've seen real positive results in our home. This community has deepened my understanding and patience while surrounding me with wise brothers who openly share their wisdom. I've been able to apply the tools from our gatherings to be more intentional with my children, who are on the spectrum, and to better balance perspectives with my wife, creating a stronger, more loving foundation. As a CEO and life coach, I've always valued personal growth, but ADSC has helped me lead with greater humility and purpose. The meaningful outings, events, and resources we share are truly invaluable. I now confidently direct other dads to this group, knowing it's consistent, accessible, and continues to grow. I'm grateful to be part of it.

Derrick Thomas

CEO & Life Coach

Autism Dads Social Club has provided me a relaxed atmosphere to fellowship with other dads navigating the journey of fathering a child with autism. The group allows me to share my experience as well as learn and hear from others about their experience along the journey, all for the mutual benefit of the entire group. There is no pressure. Some days I share more, some days I share less. But in either case, I always leave feeling refreshed and encouraged knowing there is a group that I can relate with regarding raising a child on the autism spectrum. One of the resources the club has that I particularly find useful is the group chat where we can reach out to each other any time for any reason. Whether it's needing someone to talk to during a difficult time or just wanting to know what activities are happening on a weekend that would be fun for my autistic child, the group is there 24/7 for support. If you are looking for a group for men supporting children with autism, you have found the right one in ADSC!

Elliot

Autism Dads Social Club has been a place where I can speak truth and know I am not alone. As the father of a son with special needs, that support has meant a great deal to me. I remember sitting in the group, hearing another dad talk about his son's particular food habits, and thinking, "He is describing my son." That moment stayed with me because it reminded me that even though my child is unique, my family's experiences are not isolated. This group has been a resource where I can ask honest questions, hear real solutions, and learn about opportunities that can help my son and my family. It has also given me the chance to support other dads and remind them they are not alone either. Autism Dads Social Club is more than a group; it is a community of fathers who understand.

Keith

I joined the Autism Dads Social Club in 2023 as a father looking to connect with other dads who truly understood the unique journey of raising children with special needs. As a dad to a daughter with autism and a son with speech dysfluency, I quickly found that ADSC was much more than a social group — it was a brotherhood. The friendships, conversations, and shared experiences reminded me that I was not alone in facing the challenges, uncertainties, and victories that come with being a special needs parent. What I appreciate most about ADSC is the opportunity to learn from other fathers and support one another without judgment. Whether discussing education, therapies, family life, or simply hanging out in the mixers, being among the other dads gave me encouragement, perspective, and a sense of belonging. ADSC has strengthened me not only as a father, but also as a husband, advocate, and man. I'm grateful to be part of a community that helps dads show up stronger for their families and gives hope to those just beginning their journey.

Mike Castillo

Joined 2023

Since joining in 2024, I've found a level of support here I didn't know I needed. This brotherhood has been like family, helping me show up stronger for my son Samuel, 11. Having other dads who truly understand has made all the difference for my family. Going through this feels less heavy and a lot more hopeful, with resources from dads who understand what you're going through.

Roberto Gomez

Joined 2024 · Dad to Samuel, 11

Three Ways In

What we actually do.

Three programs, all running. Come to one. Come to all. Bring the family or come alone.

For Dads · Monthly & in-person

Mixers

Our Dad Meetups are designed for fathers and caregivers of autistic children. Whether it's a game of pool, a backyard barbecue, bowling, or simply sharing a meal, these gatherings offer a chance to spend a few hours with others who truly understand the journey. There is no agenda and no pressure. Conversations about autism happen naturally when someone wants to share or ask a question. Most mixers include 8 to 16 dads, creating a relaxed space to connect, laugh, recharge, and build lasting friendships.

Next mixer Check the calendar below →

ADSC family event at an outdoor pavilion

Whole family · Quarterly

Family Gatherings

Our family gatherings bring everyone together. Spouses connect with other spouses while autistic and neurotypical children play, explore, and simply be themselves — from spring Easter egg hunts to pumpkin patches, trunk-or-treats, and holiday celebrations. There's only one rule: no one needs to apologize for their child. Every family is understood, accepted, and welcomed just as they are.

Sunday, July 26 · 2:00–4:00 PM Back to School Resource Fair at the Community Center · Family RSVPs open soon · Last family event filled in 4 days

Online · Anytime

Virtual Connections

Not every father can attend events in person, but every father deserves connection and community. ADSC's virtual programming allows dads and families to learn, grow, and support one another from wherever they are.

Quarterly Fatherhood HuddlesVirtual conversations created to encourage, equip, and connect fathers raising children with autism and other special needs. Each session features experienced fathers, professionals, and honest conversations that offer practical parenting insights, shared experiences, and meaningful encouragement. No matter where you live, you'll find a welcoming brotherhood where no father has to navigate the journey alone. Register for the next Huddle →
Members WhatsApp GroupConnect with fellow Autism Dads Social Club members through our private WhatsApp community. Ask questions, exchange advice, receive referrals to trusted local providers and resources, and find encouragement from dads who understand the journey. It's a convenient way to stay connected and receive support between events.

Upcoming Fatherhood Huddle Series · June 18 – July 16

Three Ways to Belong & Support

Membership is how we keep ADSC going.

You can keep doing what you're doing. You can show up to a meetup and not commit a dollar. Or you can back the work and pull the next dad in.

Every dad's mixer and event we host is free. Membership, sponsorship, and donations fund our nonprofit programming. Your membership helps ensure ADSC can keep creating spaces where fathers connect, families thrive, and no dad has to navigate the autism journey alone.

74 members · Growing every month

Circle Member

Sustaining Supporters

$360/year

or $30/month

Circle Members help sustain and expand ADSC's reach and impact. The infrastructure they fund is what enables us to keep hosting events for autism dads and families and run a thriving nonprofit organization.

Your support helps make possible

Annual state and federal filings
Accounting and bookkeeping
Insurance coverage
Email marketing platforms
Newsletter production and distribution
Social media management
Grant writing and grant management
Strategic planning and governance
Staff support (paid or volunteer)
Professional development and training

Become a Circle member

Charter Member

Founding Supporters

$50/year

Save $10 vs. monthly · or $5/month

Charter Members help strengthen the foundation of the organization while enjoying opportunities for deeper connection and engagement. Charter Members help shape the future of ADSC.

Your support helps make possible

Refreshments for Dads Mixers throughout the year
Food and refreshments for Family events and celebrations
Website hosting, design, and maintenance
Educational resources and community outreach
Newsletter production
Podcast platform

Become a Charter member

Basic Subscriber

Community Supporter

Free

Support with your time and presence

You don't have to serve on a committee or make a large financial contribution to make a difference. One of the most valuable things a dad can do is simply show up. At ADSC, brotherhood is built one conversation at a time — your presence matters, your story matters, and your willingness to show up may be exactly what another father or family needs.

As a Basic Subscriber, you help by

Showing up to Dads Mixers and community events
Welcoming new fathers into the group
Sharing your experiences and listening when other dads need support
Attending family events and helping build community
Sharing ADSC events and resources with other dads and families
Volunteering occasionally when your schedule allows

All memberships and donations are tax-deductible. Autism Dads Social Club is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit. EIN: 99-2055011.

Sponsors & Partners

The businesses keeping us going.

We're a 501(c)(3) run on dads, donations, and the businesses below. They pay for the meetup tabs, the family events, the venue deposits, and the food. Every one of them said yes when we asked. If you do business with them, tell them you found them here.

Common questions

Things dads actually ask us.

Is this only for dads in Houston?

In-person meetups and family events are in the Houston-area (we run them everywhere from Sugar Land to Katy and Tomball). The newsletter and member text thread are open to dads anywhere. We have Charter members in and throughout Houston. Our Fatherhood Huddle Series is open to dads throughout the United States and to anyone who wants to join via Zoom.

What if my child is grown? Or recently diagnosed?

All dads who have a child on the spectrum, regardless of age, are welcome to attend an ADSC event. The focus isn't on the kid's age; it's on the experience of being a dad.

Is this a support group? A therapy thing?

No, nobody runs a session. It's a social club. We gather at pool halls, sports bars, barbecues, and bowling alleys. Sometimes, things happen that look like support because that's what happens when men actually talk. But the format is just hanging out.

Do I need to be religious? Any political affiliation?

No, on both counts. We are intentionally nondenominational and nonpolitical. We have members from every faith and no faith, every political background, and all kinds of households. The diagnosis doesn't consider any of that, and neither do we.

What does a meetup actually look like?

Mixers are typically held on the fourth Saturday of each month. Simply show up at the announced location around 3:00 p.m. and look for the table with the Autism Dads Social Club reserved sign. Light food and refreshments are usually provided, including items such as chicken wings, pizza, chips, and dip. Dads are invited to introduce themselves, share a little about their families, and participate in brief icebreakers designed to spark conversation and connection.

Some mixers also include fun activities such as driving range golf, billiards, bowling, darts, or other recreational outings. Throughout the gathering, announcements are shared about upcoming events, programs, and opportunities to get involved. Most importantly, mixers provide a relaxed environment where dads can build friendships, exchange resources, and connect with others who understand the special needs parenting journey.

Why pay for membership if events are free?

Great question. Membership helps make those free events possible. While many of our programs are offered at no cost, there are real expenses involved in running a nonprofit, including website hosting, insurance, food and refreshments, communications, marketing, and administrative services. Membership dues help sustain and grow our programs, support autism families, and ensure that dads can continue to access resources, events, and community. As a registered nonprofit, membership contributions are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law.

How do I bring my family to a family event?

RSVP through the events page when it's announced. Tell us how many adults and kids, and the ages of the kids. There's no charge. We just need a head count for food and space. Spouses, partners, neurotypical siblings, grandparents — everyone is welcome.

Can I just come once and see how it feels?

Yes. That's how almost everyone starts. Come to one meetup. Buy your own beer. See what it's like. If it's not for you, no hard feelings, you're still on the newsletter. If it is for you, we'll see you next month. We will welcome you to become involved and invested in expanding our village and supporting the autism and special needs community.

Is the Autism Dads Social Club only for dads?

Not at all! While our name is Autism Dads Social Club, we welcome all male caregivers who play an important role in the lives of autistic children and adults to join our mixers. This includes fathers, grandfathers, uncles, stepfathers, godfathers, foster fathers, and other men who provide love, guidance, and support. We also create spaces for our families to mix and mingle. Our mission is simple: to unite fathers and families by building a community where men can learn, connect, and support one another — and where our families can socialize.

You're the dad in the background.
The club is for you.

The team that keeps ADSC running.

The voices that sharpen our work.

What it actually feels like.